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2003ǯ05·î14Æü(¿å) I have grown to be in time for school this month

I did not sink.It is high time I come to my senses.

Today I was very happy because I went to school in time.You should
be in the classroom before your teacher gets there,shouldn't you?

Supper;cutlets of pork,sausage and mashroom, sliced cabbage,tomato,radish soy-sauce soup,
rice

Tonight I am awfully sorry I could not go to the outdoor concert of the japanese traditional music which had been composed of flutes and
drums because of cooking.


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You could be getting most of the attention today, especially with superiors or in relation to your work. You may find that you enjoy your job or the responsibility it entails more than usual. You are sensitive and in tune with others today--perhaps listening at some length to someone's problems. Your intensity and passionate approach to life are obvious to all who meet you today. You are driven to penetrate the trivial and get at the basics in many situations. Perhaps you are selling a product to the public--this is a successful time. Conversation with prospective customers or regular customers is intriguing and can lean toward a mystical or poetic appeal. Your health gets better all during this year--keep it that way through structured and programmed exercise

Tensions build and a confrontation is likely unless you defuse the situation with some clever strategies. Steer clear of anything that requires a large outlay of funds and, if possible, use the current temptation to take a look at where your money often goes. As you make changes in your spending habits you'll be well on the way to fewer worries in the months ahead. Music enchants and soothes you in a mellifluous and harmoniously therapeutic way.

You're trying to get your act together and market your skills. Put your independent spirit on display. It'll be loved.;

La Dolce Vita! You want to change. Listen to your spirit. What makes it happy? Do that.

You'll achieve your professional and romantic goals. Get rid of distractions and live serenely.


Setting the boundaries
by Coram Family

A cold authoritarian parent makes for a miserable family life. But, as Coram Family says, it doesn¡Çt help to be so lax and tolerant that you never set limits.
Young children do need to know that there are limits and, as a parent, you¡Çre the one to set those limits. You¡Çre not your child¡Çs best friend or big sibling. They¡Çll expect you to take charge of what¡Çs happening, so you need to be authoritative, rather than authoritarian –what used to be called ¡Æfirm but fair¡Ç.
Your task, as a parent, is not about holding on to power and control. You need to guide your child with actions, as well as words, especially, where very young children are concerned.

Showing and telling is what¡Çs needed:

Babies will fling their food, along with anything else they can grasp. They aren¡Çt being deliberately messy and, certainly, not ¡Ænaughty¡Ç. But you can guide them with actions, supported with a kind and firm, ¡ÆNo, the food stays on your plate¡Ç. You can take away an item that isn¡Çt a plaything, and give them something that can be dropped or thrown.
Toddlers may need to be diverted from poking the video, or the long-suffering cat, and towards things that will stand up to this robust treatment.
By all means, tell your two-year-old not to hit the cat, but also show him directly what ¡Ægentle¡Ç looks like, and be pleased with him when he copies your action.
You¡Çll need to take your four-year-old back up to bed, when she keeps appearing in the evening. Telling her to go back is unlikely to be enough.
Toddlers are curious; that¡Çs how they learn, and they don¡Çt have a mental list of what they can and can¡Çt touch. Tell them a firm ¡ÆNo¡Ç and hold their hand to stop them. Offer an alternative that they can touch or encourage them to ¡Ælook – but don¡Çt touch¡Ç. Children need this guidance more than once. But they¡Çll get the hang of it, and may even repeat your own words like, ¡ÆNo, not the plant¡Ç, in order to stop themselves.


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