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| 2006年03月06日(月) |
Making decisions and planning your future
Some people are natural decision-makers and are always sure about their choices, but most of us are not. Here are a few practical ideas psychologists suggest to help us make decisions.
When it is time to make a decision, you will need to review all the possibilities. Sit down with a pen and paper and write down all the possible choices you can make. If, for example, you don't like your job, you might write:
I can keep my job and look for a new job at the same time.
I can quit my job to look for a new job.
After you finish your list, make if sentences with the different choices. If we continue with the example above, we might have:
If I quit my job, I won't have enough money.
If I keep my job, I won't have enough time to look for a new job.
With your if sentences written down, you will see the problem more clearly. Before you make a final decision, get some help. Talk to three friends. Tell them your problem and ask for their advice. If all three friends give you the same advice, the advice is probably good. But if not, you should probably wait before you make the decision. Do some research and ask some more people. Above all, don't panic. If you stay calm, you will probably make the right decision. If you panic, you might make a decision too quickly, and then you might be sorry.
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