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As a housewife |
I tend to spend much more when I keep my domestic accounts book than when I think of me as ill.I was so surprised at my great expense in April that I almost thought of quitting to keep the book.Yet I had better become more perseverant.Now I am saying to my husband everything what I feel making ends meet on his salary,but I do not think that this is not so good an attitude of a housewife.I would like to make him feel less stress from real life in order that he could work relaxedly.
What's your Parenting Style? Contributed by Dr. Larry Craft. Dr. Craft, an industrial psychologist, has spent more than 20 years developing personality tests, including the Craft Personality Questionnaire (CPQ) and the Parenting Profile Questionnaire (PPQ).
Your parenting style is: Passive This parenting style is organised, consistent and methodical. This style is best at providing a calm, stable and predictable environment. Too often, however, children feel neglected if the parent doesn't compensate by expressing more warmth and actively participating in their activities.
Your parenting style is patient and task-oriented but can occasionally lack empathy and warmth. Rather than 'telling' your children what to do, you are more comfortable informing them of the problem and then expecting their cooperation. When making decisions and taking actions, you are reflective and analytical (as opposed to impulsive). You can be emotionally detached and aloof at times, and your partner and your children sometimes think, 'We never know what she is thinking.' On the other hand, your parenting style is stable, predictable and resourceful. Seldom do you charge ahead before you have all the facts. You are quite good at preparing and planning activities and seldom make impulsive mistakes.
This style may not produce the responses you hope it will, however, if you do not find ways to express your loving and caring emotions. Remember that your children's self-esteem comes not only from their self-discipline but also from feelings of significance, love and acceptance they receive from their parents. Learn to provide the touchy-feely stuff and praise that are so important to both your children and your partner.
Am I not expressing my loving and caring emotions toward children? I cannot believe that.
Almost sunny today,too.Not so cloudy.
I am happy to remember that today is the day I ordered my ward some waste refuse of large size in advance about a month ago.
My son went to school this morning again.
Sleepy unbearably now.I'll go to bed. Good morning! Farewell!
I had a dream this morning where I was taking a bath into which my mother who had already passed away 15 years ago was coming smilingly.Is this dream telling me to pray for her? I netsurfed some dream dictionaries where I read that taking a bath showed that I wanted to be helped or that I needed more comfortable life.The dream in which you are surprised to happen to see your parent shows that you want help and that you are aware of your being concerned.
I should stop spending money on food for 4 or 5days.Can I get along with my family and with the budget so well as I think i should?
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